Before you talk to someone about your
problems, first talk to God for Him to direct you to the people that He knows
they can help you. Many a times, we rule God out of our minds when we face a
problem. We think He is too far or too busy talking to other people. Or maybe
He is not interested. People go for all sort of counselling. Whether it is helpful
or harmful, they do not care, as long as it is ‘counselling’ they think it’s
all good. We have right to eat all kinds
of food, be it raw or cooked, all kinds of meat, be it snake or chicken. I have
never tasted snake but I was told it is very delicious. I cannot assure you of
anything like that because i am not a snake-eater. I prefer chicken to snake or
frog. There are people out there who feel it is good to eat snakes, frogs or
dogs, I am not jesting at them in anyway, but we are also here to prove to them
that chicken is the best. My point is we are all entitled to our opinions. You
have the right to wear any shoe you like if only you can afford and I have the
right too. Now when you stretch out your fingers you will see that all of them
are not equal. That is how we were created. I think it is not good to bump into
any office or house so to speak in the name of counselling. There are women out
there who did it and they ended up pregnant. I am not scaring you in anyway but
all i want you to understand is that, before you take a step when you face a
problem, please talk to God about it. For me, anytime I want to talk to God
about a problem, I write it in a form of a letter and after, I let it go. It is momentous to seek advice from experts
but sometimes, sit down and talk to God. Anytime i talk to God about a problem, He
directs me to people i can go to for help. When I pray to Him, He gives me
their names and when i go they do not deny me. I have tried it several times,
it worked for me and I believe it will work for you too.
Communication is one of the reasons why God
created us. There are many marriages that have broken up because of lack of
communication. Either the man was an introvert or the woman was an extrovert.
Whichever case it may be, both failed to reason up. Talk to God about that
problem. You can put it down in a letter form like I do each time I’m confronted
with a problem. Do not let circumstances change your destiny. I know people who
were born into poverty and today have grown to be armed robbers. They allowed
circumstances to change their name and destiny. Well, I was born into a very
poor family. I mean the poorest of the poor. My mother and father were
illiterates, but today I can read and write. I never allowed that to discourage
me in anyway...Start talking to God today about that problem you are facing. I
believe that is the best way to find the solution.
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